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Spring comes slowly to New England. When I leave the house in the mornings at the end of April, I pull my fleece jacket tighter around me on my way to the car. My daughter’s dark eyes and solemn mouth watch from the second-floor window as I pull away.

In the “don and doff” station at the respiratory tent, I take one last lungful of chilly damp air (grass, diesel fuel, coffee smells from the bodega across the street) before I plaster the N95 mask to my face, lapping the elastic bands over my head like jump ropes. This is always the moment when I think of those masks the plague doctors wore – with the long, scary-looking beaks – that I have seen in paintings, and movies. I let the thought come, and then I push it firmly away, because I have to.

Seeing patients in the respiratory tent is an exercise in finding out what is wrong with someone from as far away as possible. I take the history from six feet away, approaching only at the end to palpate, illuminate, auscultate. Then I take a giant step back again, order my tests, and retreat to the ‘clean’ side of the tent to strategize the plan. In between patient 6 and patient 7, I see a message on my inbasket screen that one of my primary care patients, the one with end-stage congestive heart failure, has finally decided he needs hospice. I like him very much – he and I have had many blunt conversations about how he is destined to become ‘worm food’ within the next year (his words, not mine) – and I immediately want to go to his house to visit this afternoon. I’ve been doing home visits for about six months, and I enjoy sitting with him and talking, trying to get his cat to come a little closer so I can pet her. Last fall, the sun would slant into his living room and fall in a skinny parallelogram on his couch, and the cat had a way of arranging herself so that she was exposing maximal square inches of her belly to the warmth and light. But of course I can’t go visit him this afternoon. I can’t risk exposing him to coronavirus, which I may well be a carrier of by now. I could call him, but I can’t really talk on the phone while wearing an N95, so I will have to try later.

I read an article last night on line about how we are all grieving now. Not only grieving people who have died from the virus, but grieving our previous way of life – the freedom to leave the house when we wanted, the social interactions with people, the hugs. Grieving the everyday humdrum of going to school. My daughter is sitting in front of a tablet at her desk right now, struggling to engage with a history class discussion about concentration camps. When she emerges from her room at the end of the day, she has none of the rosy glow that used to characterize school pick-up, as she would fling herself into the car and heave her bag onto the seat. She moves slowly now. She appears, sometimes, to have circles under her beautiful eyes.

I am partly, I suppose, grieving my patient before he really dies. But through my career, the deaths have bothered me less because I find the time beforehand rewarding. I truly enjoy spending time with patients who are terminally ill: I like seeking those moments of connection when my head is bent next to theirs and they are talking and I am listening. I will have to try to do that today on the phone, the sleek rectangle in my hand the only manifestation of my patient, his couch, his sunshine, his cat. It won’t be the same, and I realize that what I am actually grieving is my chance to do the work I like to do, the way I value doing it.

We find new ways. We find new things to sustain us. I think about what I will say on that phone call, how I can try to infuse some hope and calm as the mysteries of smartphones carry my voice to his voice. I think about how, if it warms up a little, my daughter and I can play Frisbee in the back yard (she is truly terrible, flinging the plastic disc into the gutters, the grill, the daffodils while we both laugh hysterically – I have begun to think, actually, that no one could be this incompetent, and she does it as a way of cheering me up.) I stand still in the tent for a moment before I go to see the last patient. I imagine how it will feel when I pry the mask off my face to breathe anew the spring chill, the coffee, the grass. I think about the next step, and I visualize the plague doctor’s mask lying on the sidewalk behind me, as I walk ahead, moving forward, always forward toward home.

J.W. MD, MSc